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What would you tell the Class of 2018 (or any other class)?

I was watching Fox News Channel's "The Five" the other day and they had a segment in which each one of the contributors was asked what advice they would give the Class of 2018.  Each of them responded in their own unique ways with some form of advice (one was a quote from the Lego Batman Movie).  As a teacher and pastor, I am often confronted with opportunities to speak, so I began to think about what I would tell the Class of 2018.  After some time of contemplating this question, I found that I had way too many things to say just to leave them with one thing.
     It was early this morning that I finally found that one thing that I wish to let this year's seniors know.  In fact, this truth that I now feel compelled to share with the class of 2018 is so important that I believe it is something everyone should consider.  In a word, it is life-changing.  The sad part is that this truth is not original with me.  It came from another man who was writing to help set p…
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